Not Feeling It Anymore Blog

Is it Time to Talk (More) about Sexual Micro-Aggression?

In the waning days of Donald Trump’s unprecedented, alarming (and imploding) campaign for the presidency, the stories of women keep coming. Beyond the outright groping, it’s been interesting to see the attention given to uninvited, impromptu, forced kisses: One woman reported that after they shook hands, he allegedly refused to let go, kissed her on the cheeks, […]

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The Opening of My Eyes

Eight years ago, I met a big-eyed, long-haired woman for lunch at the Gateway in SLC.  For the next two hours a Power Conversation ensued in which we changed the world over a simple hamburger. Appreciations, updates, a few e-mails…then Nothing. I stopped calling.  Hey – I liked her…but did I like her enough?  Later, […]

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Public radio interview

Special thanks to Geoffrey and Charlotte for the stimulating interview today on their public radio program, Jefferson Exchange, reaching Oregon and parts of California. I found the questions raised – including by callers, to be very fun!  http://ijpr.org/post/whats-killing-romance-america

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Not into Valentine’s?

“So how many of you are excited to celebrate romance this week?” That’s the question I asked to a group of 100 singles earlier this week – with a few isolated hands shooting up.  When I asked the opposite (“how many are ready to kiss dating goodbye?”) – heads started nodding as people laughed. Is […]

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TV interview

I’m grateful to Megan Bowen, Gretchen Jensen & Nicea Degering for the nice interview they gave me today on Good Things Utah. They were professional, kind and fun to talk with…especially for a guy who was a bit nervous!  (:  

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The holidays are finally over?

It’s SO easy to assume that the holidays are joyful for everyone. However, for those who have lost loved ones, lost peace of mind, or struggled to find either, this time of year can feel even MORE painful than normal. I spoke with a woman recently married after 55 years single. She told me, “As […]

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The book is finally out!

With 7 days till Christmas, I’m excited to finally announce my second book is out! I’m so exhausted that I hardly have any energy to promote and market it…oh well. I guess I’ll grow by attraction – and not promotion. (: I’d love to know any of you think of it!

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Happy birthday website!

Have you ever had something burning under your fingernails for ten years?  Something that bothered you, bugged you – and something you couldn’t stop thinking about? The trauma of romantic heartbreak has been real enough that I haven’t been able to simply ‘walk away.’  How do you simply move forward after seeing people you care […]

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